Jennifer Lawrence About Motherhood and Postpartum at Cannes: ‘It’s Extremely Isolating’ and ‘You Feel Like an Alien’
Oscar winner Jennifer Lawrence was honest about her own experience with motherhood and postpartum at the Cannes press conference for her film Die My Love, a thriller following a new mother descending into madness.
“As a mother, it was really hard to separate what I would do as opposed to what she would do. And it was just heartbreaking,” Lawrence said of filming the movie. “I had just had my firstborn, and there’s not really anything like postpartum. It’s extremely isolating, which is so interesting.
When we moves as couple into Montana, she doesn’t have a community. She doesn’t have her people. But the truth is, extreme anxiety and extreme depression is isolating, no matter where you are. You feel like an alien.”
“Die My Love” is based on author Ariana Harwicz’s 2017 novel of the same name, which centers on a new mother who enters psychosis after developing postpartum depression. The couple’s marriage is thrown into disarray amid the wife’s mental health struggle.
Lawrence also revealed that she filmed “Die My Love” while being five months pregnant with her second child.
“Having children changes everything. It changes your whole life. It’s brutal and incredible,” she said of motherhood.
“So not only do they go into every decision of if I’m working, where I’m working, when I’m working, they’ve taught me — I mean, I didn’t know that I could feel so much and my job has a lot to do with emotion. It’s almost like feeling a blister or something — like, so sensitive. So they’ve changed my life, obviously, for the best and they’ve changed me creatively. I highly recommend having kids if you want to be an actor.”
“He’s just a guy. He doesn’t seem to be the guy who is looking at TikTok reels of parenting and stuff,” he added. “He’s just kind of hoping the relationship will go back to what it was and not understanding why this is happening to them, why this intruder has entered this relationship. I guess it’s a fear that everyone has as soon as they have a kid.”
“This question is impossible for a guy to answer correctly,” Pattinson said as laughs erupted. “What Jennifer said, I’m here just to support. Ever since she was born, it’s reinvigorated the way I approach work and you’re a completely different person the next day.”
“The day before our first day, Lynne showed Rob and I a scene from ‘If’ and these characters are attacking each other like tigers. She said, ‘You’ll do it naked, yeah?’ And we’re like ‘Oh, OK,’” Lawrence said. “And that was the first day on set.”
