Road Between Us, The: Barry Avrich’s Docu of One Israeli Grandfather’s Attempt to Rescue his Family on Oct. 7

The Palestinian-Israeli conflict impacted the Toronto Film Fest in both disruptive and important ways as a once-canceled film about Oct. 7 made its premiere to nearly 2,000 ticketbuyers amid various protests.

Barry Avrich‘s The Road Between Us is a heroic tale of fight and survival, focusing on one Israeli grandfather’s attempt to rescue his family, which was trapped in a Hamas-occupied kibbutz on that fateful day.

The grandfather, a retired Israeli general named Noam Tibon, recreates the harrowing journey he took, facing heavy fire while rescuing civilians from a murderous fate, including his son, daughter-in-law and two toddler granddaughters in the besieged Nahal Oz kibbutz at the Gaza border.

Netflix's "Fauda" is about the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.
The film culminates with his reaching those granddaughters, who’d been sheltering quietly in a safe room in their home for more than eight hours as terrorists shot at them just outside.
“Grandpa’s here!” one girl, age three, exclaimed as Tibon reached the room and secured the area.

“Family is the most important thing we’ve got,” Tibon told the audience after the screening. “This is universal.”

He had been racked by doubt as he navigated numerous gun battles to reach the kibbutz. “I kept thinking ‘what if I get there and they’re all dead?’ But then I had to push the thought out of my mind because I wouldn’t have been able to go on.”

Tibon’s wife Gali, who accompanied her husband on most of the journey, offered her own incredulity: “Two years after Oct. 7, I still don’t believe it happened to us. We are so joyful that our family made it through, but our hearts are with the families that are grieving.”

For much of the screening and its aftermath, rousing cheers could be heard as Tibon and his wife went along on their dangerous mission.

The audience welcomed the subjects to the stage after the screening with a standing ovation–many in the audience were vocally pro-Israel, if also divided on current Israeli policy.

Festival organizers brought on CTV chief anchor Lisa LaFlamme to moderate a panel with filmmakers and subjects. LaFlamme’s presence did not go over well, however, when she noted that “Israel’s response has an aspect of revenge because of the humiliation of that day” and cited the “overwhelming use of force and over 64,000 estimated Palestinian deaths.” Loud jeers rained down from various sections of the theater.

Before the screening, Toronto CEO Cameron Bailey apologized to the audience for how the whole situation was initially handled.  “It is something that caused a lot of pain and hurt in the Jewish community in particular, and I apologize for that. We worked quickly to resolve things with Barry and his team and were able to come to a resolution. But in that time, a lot of harm had been done, and a lot of misinformation was out there.”
The movie was invited, then disinvited, and eventually reinstated after widespread outcry and protests.

The film was given only one screening, contrary to the custom of offering at least two public screenings and one press screening. Organizers have not explained the decision, but given the protests and security issues, it became clear why they might want one big event instead of several smaller ones.

“What a screening, we arrived here today, and we will release this film internationally,” the director said to loud cheers. The film is seeking distribution, which means that for now this was the only audience to see it.

Before the screening, nearly 2,000 people lined up to gain entry to the venue; some ticketbuyers carried Israeli flags or wore yellow hostage ribbons.

There were several dozen pro-Palestinian protesters who called out anti-IDF messages and accused Israel of genocide, with pro-Israel protesters loudly volleying back.

The festival has been infused with geopolitical conflicts in unprecedented ways in its 50 years, suggesting that nearly two years after the conflict between Israel and Hamas escalated, public figures in Hollywood are both seized by passion on the issue and are willing to use their platforms to voice them.
The festival unfolded amid the pledge this week signed by Emma Stone, Mark Ruffalo and other Hollywood luminaries not to work with Israeli film institutions “implicated in genocide” in Gaza. However, Israeli film veterans say that such a boycott harms the very people working for peace.

“The war on Gaza should have stopped a long time ago,” Gali Tibon said to the pro-Israel crowd in the venue. “I hope it’s not too late. We could still end the war and bring the hostages back and bring peace upon the region.”

She said that “on Oct. 6, 2023, the kibbutzim were filled with young families and children along the border. This will be the real victory of Israel. Not how many bombs we shelled, but how many families will live on the border with their children.”

Noam Tibon concluded, “I hope my granddaughters will live in a flourishing Israel. A living country, a living democracy. Two years of war is a long time.”

 

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